Why I Want My Kids to See Me Peeling Potatoes

Let me begin by saying that I am an old school mom. I have 2 adult kids already, so they grew up with out cell phones, computers (excessive use) and all the technology of today. I am planning on raising my kids to play outside, do simple math without a calculator (or calculator app) and I always encourage them to be kids. This time of their lives does not last that long and I want them to enjoy it.

That being said, this is why I want my kids to see me peel potatoes, cut up veggies, and do prep work for dinner. I also want them to see me cook dinner as well. Mainly because I do not want them to think that the ‘dinner fairy’ is real, as much as I wish she were. I want my kids to know that there is work in everything you do. Making dinner for them is no exception.

I want my daughter to know that it is okay to be a mom and a homemaker even in this age of women getting to train for combat infantry jobs, running for President, being astronauts, and even being teachers. I want her to know there is absolutely no shame is taking care of her family as I am taking care of mine. I want her to see me gladly putting in so much love to feeding, caring, and even disciplining her and her brother. I also want her to understand that when she is old enough she will be in the kitchen with me learning all things I was never taught and had to learn on my own.

I want my son to know that cooking and making dinner can be fun and is not a chore. I want him to understand that my love for him and sister extends to the meals I make for them and that cooking is cool. So, when he is old enough ( I have actually started with him helping me with some recipes) that cooking is not just for girls. I also want him to understand that I want him to learn these skills so when he is on his own he will never starve.

For me, cooking and prepping is an act of love and I want my kids to see and understand that. I want them to experience that love for themselves and know with every single meal I sit on the table, from the most simplest to the most complicated that they all came from my heart and that they are filled with love and caring. I want to send both of my kids out into the world with skills to take good care of themselves and eventually their families.

In this day and age, it is so easy to push a button on a computer and order dinner, I have done it many times myself, but I want my kids to know how to cook and bake so that they have a choice in life and not just have to eat junky fast food. Oh, do not get me wrong, I love, absolutely adore junky fast food, but I love to make good, home cooked meals for my family too.

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2 thoughts on “Why I Want My Kids to See Me Peeling Potatoes

  1. I like your plan. I also taught my children how to sew on a button, repair a hem,pin a zipper, and CLEAN under, behind, above and in between everything. At 2 they can only pick up all the toys and put them away, sort of. Learning Laundry starts at 2 when you teach them to put it in the laundry basket ONLY. Then at 3 they drag the laundry basket from their room to the machine. Then the basket becomes a space ship, train, Captain Hook’s ship, or a fort until you absolutely must have it back! At 5 they start folding laundry and sweep the middle of the room.
    At 6 they empty the trash and sweep the front porch. See Tawnya you do get live in help eventually. Then they get married and forget everything.

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