Happenings

We have officially moved. If you do not follow me on Facebook, then you most likely did not know. We moved into a 2 bedroom, 1.5 bath townhouse. It was not what we were looking for, but it was in a way perfect. The stairs might kill me in the end, but it is a great exercise I guess. We do have baby gates, three in fact. One at the top of the stairs, one at the bottom of the stairs and one to keep the munchkins out of the kitchen. Our new stove is gas, so the knobs for the stove are within Jeff’s reach, a definite no-no. Speaking of Jeff he will be three later this month! I can not believe that!! 

He is doing really wonderful in speech and is now saying momma consistently, which thrills this momma to no end! We are working on other words many times a week and he is learning at a fast pace! He has an occupational therapy eval coming up soon, so I am sure that will help too. He is not really doing well with all the changes that have happened as of late. Moving and new house. It has been rough on all of us especially him. 

Charlotte is doing fantastic too! She is learning to come down the stairs in a safe way. She has no issues getting up, but getting down is a problem for her. She has started using a fork sometimes. She has trouble but is getting the hang of it. 

M lost his job this past Wednesday. It has been hard on us having just moved and all, but we are surviving. He has applied for unemployment already and put some resumes in for a few jobs already. The story behind the termination is a stupid one, but for right now I can not get into that. 

We still need a few things for the house, like a storage thing for the kitchen for extra can goods and pans. I have a solution until we can find something that I like and we can afford. It will not be perfect but should help some. Another thing we need is a table to eat at. right now we are all sitting in the living room on the floor. I do have our first real adult dresser coming from Ikea, which we bought before the job thing. We got the kids their own beds, which are in the process of being put together. 

I have started a new business. I am now selling Pampered Chef. Which I love! The Facebook business page is here. My Pampered Chef website is here. I am doing my launch party now, so if you or anyone you know needs anything, let me know! Well, I am gonna go, so much to do today! 

-Ciao!

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Why I Want My Kids to See Me Peeling Potatoes

Let me begin by saying that I am an old school mom. I have 2 adult kids already, so they grew up with out cell phones, computers (excessive use) and all the technology of today. I am planning on raising my kids to play outside, do simple math without a calculator (or calculator app) and I always encourage them to be kids. This time of their lives does not last that long and I want them to enjoy it.

That being said, this is why I want my kids to see me peel potatoes, cut up veggies, and do prep work for dinner. I also want them to see me cook dinner as well. Mainly because I do not want them to think that the ‘dinner fairy’ is real, as much as I wish she were. I want my kids to know that there is work in everything you do. Making dinner for them is no exception.

I want my daughter to know that it is okay to be a mom and a homemaker even in this age of women getting to train for combat infantry jobs, running for President, being astronauts, and even being teachers. I want her to know there is absolutely no shame is taking care of her family as I am taking care of mine. I want her to see me gladly putting in so much love to feeding, caring, and even disciplining her and her brother. I also want her to understand that when she is old enough she will be in the kitchen with me learning all things I was never taught and had to learn on my own.

I want my son to know that cooking and making dinner can be fun and is not a chore. I want him to understand that my love for him and sister extends to the meals I make for them and that cooking is cool. So, when he is old enough ( I have actually started with him helping me with some recipes) that cooking is not just for girls. I also want him to understand that I want him to learn these skills so when he is on his own he will never starve.

For me, cooking and prepping is an act of love and I want my kids to see and understand that. I want them to experience that love for themselves and know with every single meal I sit on the table, from the most simplest to the most complicated that they all came from my heart and that they are filled with love and caring. I want to send both of my kids out into the world with skills to take good care of themselves and eventually their families.

In this day and age, it is so easy to push a button on a computer and order dinner, I have done it many times myself, but I want my kids to know how to cook and bake so that they have a choice in life and not just have to eat junky fast food. Oh, do not get me wrong, I love, absolutely adore junky fast food, but I love to make good, home cooked meals for my family too.

Life Lately

I have been actively trying to get into the kitchen and cook more lately. See, before we had kids, I was always making new recipes and trying out new things, but after, not so much. Life got crazy with a baby in the house and cooking for fun went on the back burner. Life in the kitchen lately has been about fast, easy meals. I miss the days where I made Swedish Meatballs from scratch. 

I have been actively trying to find freezer meals that I can make before the baby comes and all that has to be done is put in the oven or crock pot, so life will be easier on us because I know I will not want to cook and I know M will be tired as it is peak season at Amazon when the baby is born. We are very lucky in that Jeff is a wonderful eater so far and basically as long  as  I am eating it, so will he with very few exceptions. 

I am going to have M’s mom come back out after the baby is born to help with Jeff and I know he will love that! I am so tired lately.. I know it is part of the whole pregnant thing, but also dealing with Jeff exhausts me! LOL. He is so crazy active and curious.. I love it. He is walking so much more now and using a sippy cup with regularity, which I am so proud of, but I wish he would slow down! LOL. Well, I have to run… 

-Ciao!